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“This groundbreaking book offers a compelling understanding of inherited trauma and fresh, powerful tools for relieving its suffering. Mark Wolynn is a wise and trustworthy guide on the journey toward healing.” —Tara Brach, PhD, author of Radical Acceptance and True Refuge
A groundbreaking approach to transforming traumatic legacies passed down in families over generations, by an acclaimed expert in the field
Depression. Anxiety. Chronic Pain. Phobias. Obsessive thoughts. The evidence is compelling: the roots of these difficulties may not reside in our immediate life experience or in chemical imbalances in our brains—but in the lives of our parents, grandparents, and even great-grandparents. The latest scientific research, now making headlines, supports what many have long intuited—that traumatic experience can be passed down through generations. It Didn’t Start with You builds on the work of leading experts in post-traumatic stress, including Mount Sinai School of Medicine neuroscientist Rachel Yehuda and psychiatrist Bessel van der Kolk, author of The Body Keeps the Score. Even if the person who suffered the original trauma has died, or the story has been forgotten or silenced, memory and feelings can live on. These emotional legacies are often hidden, encoded in everything from gene expression to everyday language, and they play a far greater role in our emotional and physical health than has ever before been understood.
As a pioneer in the field of inherited family trauma, Mark Wolynn has worked with individuals and groups on a therapeutic level for over twenty years. It Didn’t Start with You offers a pragmatic and prescriptive guide to his method, the Core Language Approach. Diagnostic self-inventories provide a way to uncover the fears and anxieties conveyed through everyday words, behaviors, and physical symptoms. Techniques for developing a genogram or extended family tree create a map of experiences going back through the generations. And visualization, active imagination, and direct dialogue create pathways to reconnection, integration, and reclaiming life and health. It Didn’t Start With You is a transformative approach to resolving longstanding difficulties that in many cases, traditional therapy, drugs, or other interventions have not had the capacity to touch.
'It Didn't Start with You' dives deep into the concept of generational trauma. The author discusses how emotional patterns from our parents and grandparents can unconsciously shape our behavior. This means that some of the struggles you face may not even be your own, but rather inherited emotions. By recognizing these patterns, you start to understand that you are not alone in your challenges because others in your family may have faced similar issues.
This book emphasizes the importance of awareness in the healing process. By acknowledging the impact of family history on your emotions, you can begin to separate your experiences from those of your ancestors. This separation is critical because it allows you to take responsibility for your own healing. As a result, you empower yourself to break the cycle of trauma and create new, healthier patterns.
'It Didn't Start with You' also provides practical tools to help you work through these emotional burdens. These tools encourage self-reflection and mindfulness, helping you process feelings that may seem overwhelming. The strategies outlined help you understand the connection between your past and your actions today, making change possible. So, with the right understanding and effort, you can rewrite your emotional story.
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